In many ways, Chiangmai takes Bangkok's positive aspects and squeezes them down into a managable space. Chiangmai has an extensive night market, the best sunday market I have experienced, and terrific nightlife. There is a large variety of venues including an Irish bar, sports bars, reggae joints, holes-in-the-wall, and fancy businessmen clubs. Afterhours, Club Spicy and the Caravan Bar (a caravan in a parkinglot) keep the parties going until sunrise.
During the daytime, a dramatic horizon line of mountains is a background for a skyline of four to five story buildings and numerous golden steeples. Trekking, tubing, and elephant riding in the country side supports a healthy eco-tourism industry.
My initial reaction was "Wow, I am quitting my job in Mae Sot tomorrow and moving here." After considering this romantic option, I decided to not burn bridges with committments that I have formed in Mae Sot, but rather make the best of living on the border while there, and try to line something up for Chiangmai for some future time.